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LGBTQ+ students are the latest target in a campaign to promote conservative policies in California schools under the banner of parental rights. Over the last two months, seven school boards have passed policies that require school district staff to inform parents if their children are transgender.
Chino Valley Unified in San Bernardino County, Murrieta Valley Unified and Temecula Valley Unified in Riverside County, Orange Unified in Orange County, Anderson Union High School District in Shasta County, and Rocklin Unified and Dry Creek Joint Elementary School District in Placer County all require that teachers and other school staff inform parents, generally within three days, if a student asks to use a different name or pronoun, or to take part in a program, or to use a facility associated with a gender other than the one they had at birth.
Other school districts will follow, predicted Jonathan Zachreson, a Roseville City Unified board member and conservative activist. Almost every school district in Placer County, near Sacramento, is expected to consider the policy, he said.
Proponents of the parental notification policies have said that parents have the right to know what is going on with their children at school and that minors do not have a right to privacy. Opponents say these policies could endanger already vulnerable students who should be able to decide when they want to come out to their parents.
The flurry of parental notification policies are dividing communities, pitting teachers against students and creating fear and anxiety for LGBTQ+ students. Teachers in those districts find themselves choosing between their jobs and their relationships with students. Some worry if they follow the district policy, and break state law, they could end up in court.
California’s parental notification board policies have their origin in Assembly Bill 1314, proposed by Assemblymember Bill Essayli, R-Riverside, which was denied a committee hearing at the state Capitol in April. Since then, Essayli has worked with parents rights groups and attorneys to write a model board policy they would like school boards to use in their districts. Each community can customize the model policy to their standards, Essayli said.
Zachreson, founder of Protect Kids California, is part of that effort. He ran for school board after creating the Reopen California Schools Facebook page for parents frustrated by school closures during the pandemic, and later by masks and vaccination mandates.
“We will take it district by district,” he said of the parental notification policy.
The parental notification policies have divided communities, leaving anger in their wake. On Sept. 6, hundreds of people overflowed the school board chamber at Rocklin Unified in Placer County. Speakers in support and opposition to notifying parents that their children are transgender gave heated and emotional testimony, both sides accusing the other of busing in supporters from outside the community.
“Look at the division in this room and outside this building tonight,” said Travis Mougeotte, a high school teacher and president of the Rocklin Unified teachers union. “It’s hard to be excellent when we’re focused on things that have nothing to do with the classroom, that have nothing to do with education, have nothing to do with making our classrooms and schools safer and better, inclusive environments for our students.”
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One speaker in opposition to the board policy called it a solution in search of a problem, while others accused the board members of proposing it only to advance their political agenda.
Board member Tiffany Saathoff disagreed. “I have had parents, I have had teachers, I have had staff members request this policy,” she said.
These cultural conflicts come on top of a backdrop of anxiety and stress as students settle back into their classrooms after the Covid-19 pandemic, said Bruce Fuller, a professor of education at UC Berkeley.
“I personally have a friend who would not be safe in his home if he came out to his parents as trans,” Asher Palmer, a Rocklin High School student who identifies as LGBTQ, said at the Sept. 6 meeting. “He would not be safe. His siblings would not be kind to him, and his parents would not be kind to him. … I hope you take my words into consideration and understand how unsafe children could become in their own households if this action is approved.”
Many speakers highlighted the high rate of suicides among LGBTQ+ students. A national survey by the LGBTQ mental health nonprofit Trevor Project in 2022 found that 41% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered killing themselves in the past year. Transgender, nonbinary and people of color reported even higher rates. Less than 40% of LGBTQ youth felt emotionally supported by their families. About half of the 28,000 students surveyed said they felt their schools were gender-affirming, and those who did reported lower rates of attempting suicide.
Rocklin resident Kurt Weidman spoke in support of the policy. “We believe we are protecting the children from those who destroy their innocence and exploit them for their own purposes,” he said. “On the whole, parents are the best protectors of children and have the natural right and duty for the care, custody and control of their children. Children in the main are naturally incapable of exercising self-governance until they reach the age of majority.”
The day after the Rocklin Unified vote, many students and teachers wore rainbow ribbons to show support for transgender students. Teacher Mougeotte said that despite the outpouring of support, students in marginalized groups, such as transgender students, were quieter than usual that first day.
A positive outcome of the debate was that students who may not have discussed gay rights before were having conversations about how the policy, how it affects their classmates and how it could affect other communities of students in the future, Mougeotte said.
Attorney General Rob Bonta says parental notification policies break state law and violate students’ civil rights and their right to privacy. He filed a lawsuit against Chino Valley Unified in San Bernardino County on Aug. 28. Bonta was granted a preliminary injunction to halt the parental notification policy to protect the safety of transgender and gender-nonconforming students while the court case proceeds.
“The battle line has been drawn here,” Essayli told EdSource. “Somehow the government has decided they are the arbiters of information, and they decide what information parents can be trusted with and which they can’t.”
Essayli said he would like to see the case get to the Supreme Court.
“The court will reaffirm our rights and that kids are the domain of their parents and that the government cannot decide what information they can and cannot get,” he said.
In another decision two weeks after the stay in the Chino Valley case, federal Judge Roger Benitez granted a preliminary injunction that prevents the Escondido Union School District from enforcing state guidance prohibiting school staff from informing parents if their children are transgender. It also forbids the district or state from disciplining the two teachers who are suing Escondido Union for requiring them to keep transgender students’ identities secret.
Last week, Attorney General Bonta sent guidance to all California school superintendents and school board members reminding them of the Chino Valley Unified restraining order and that the state Department of Justice’s intent to enforce the law remains unchanged. A hearing in the Chino Valley Unified case is set for Oct. 13.
Gov. Gavin Newsom and Democrats in the state Legislature are pushing back against conservative board policies. Last week, the governor signed legislation that provides all-gender restrooms on school campuses and prohibits book banning and censorship of instructional materials. He also signed a bill requiring schools to train secondary school staff to support LGBTQ+ students and another that would establish a state advisory task force to identify and address the needs of LGBTQ+ students.
Teachers and union leaders have come out as major opponents of parental notification policies, saying they would drive a wedge between educators and students and endanger already vulnerable students. Some teachers in Rocklin Unified, including Mougeotte, say they simply aren’t going to do it.
“Why are we creating an environment that’s unwelcoming to students?” Mougeotte asked the Rocklin board on Sept. 6. “No matter what happens here tonight, kids that walk into my classroom tomorrow will no longer feel as safe and protected as they did today, no matter what. That’s on you. That’s not on me.”
Teachers at districts with these policies worry they could lose their jobs if they don’t comply. They are also concerned they could end up in court or have their credentials suspended if they disobey federal and state laws, and policies.
Commission on Teacher Credentialing officials could not give a definitive answer about whether a teacher would risk suspension or loss of their credentials if they followed board policies that are at odds with state law. Each report of misconduct is assessed to determine whether it should be reviewed by the credentials committee, said Anita Fitzhugh, spokesperson for the commission. The committee would determine whether to recommend an action to the commission, she said.
Across the country, conservatives — initially energized by unpopular pandemic school closures and safety restrictions — are using LGBTQ+ issues and critical race theory to rally supporters. In California, the Republican Party — which has struggled to win state seats for 30 years — has also turned its attention to local races, recruiting, training and endorsing candidates for school boards.
Parental rights is the overarching issue for the Republican Party, but right now it is focused on the parental notification issue, Essayli said.
“This is an issue we want to run on in 2024,” he said. “Parental rights transcend culture, language and faith. We had every faith group at the board meeting last night. It’s an 80/20 issue. I welcome this fight. I want the voters to know going into next year.”
Parent rights proponents say school districts should make decisions for their students and not the state. They say parents are being ignored locally, but at the same time, they are taking direction from well-funded lobbies in Florida, Fuller said.
“That cuts into their credibility,” he said.
Protect Kids California has submitted a statewide proposition to the Attorney General’s Office that would require all state school districts to report transgender students to their parents, no matter what the community in that district or its school board wants. If they manage to collect 550,000 signatures it will go on the ballot in November 2024.
“Generally, we will default to local school boards, but the issue is that the data we are seeing is harming kids,” said Zachreson, a co-founder of the organization.
The organization also will ask the public to sign petitions for proposed ballot measures that would prohibit people who were born male from competing in women’s sporting events and another that would prohibit health care providers from prescribing hormones that stop or delay puberty or alter a minor’s appearance for the purpose of changing genders.
Fuller thinks the initiatives will gain traction.
“Especially when you have big Republican donors,” he said. “If you buy enough people in front of grocery stores pushing petitions, it’s likely they will get this on the ballot. It will have some appeal on the surface level.”
Teachers are worried about what conservative-majority school boards will turn to next.
“We are really concerned about book bans,” said Mike Patterson, a California Teachers Association board member and South Lake Tahoe High School teacher. “As teachers, we have some academic freedom. We need to stay within the state frameworks, but we still have some academic freedom when we teach. I’m sure they are going to go after academic freedom and want us to go back to scripted learning, which we did a decade ago and was an abject failure. I wouldn’t be surprised if something like that is in our future.”
Essayli is eying a California law that allows children as young as 12 years old to obtain medical treatment without parental consent in certain circumstances, such as obtaining birth control, treatment of communicable diseases, mental health treatment and treatment for drug or alcohol-related problems.
But he’s focusing on the parental notification issue for now. “ The school board issue right now is sort of the flashpoint,” he said. “ It’s an issue that is easy to understand and articulate.”
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William Barnes 2 years ago2 years ago
As a long-term teacher who has had to protect too many students from their parents/guardians due to violence, molestation, and being thrown out of the house for being either LGBT or the rest of the alphabet, I’m on the side of the schools and the Education Department with its policies to protect students’ privacy.
Did you ever stop to think there might be a reason why students feel free to express themselves at school, but not at home?
TheMorrigan 2 years ago2 years ago
Many commenters think this situation is about keeping secrets. It isn't. Schools are set up so parents know about bad behavior, grades, and life threatening situations. Telling parents that Johnny is gay or that Johnny is confused about his gender is not within the scope of what a teacher does. Teachers are not trained to handle conversations like this. Are they going to give teachers training in identifying gender dysphoria in their students once a … Read More
Many commenters think this situation is about keeping secrets. It isn’t. Schools are set up so parents know about bad behavior, grades, and life threatening situations. Telling parents that Johnny is gay or that Johnny is confused about his gender is not within the scope of what a teacher does. Teachers are not trained to handle conversations like this. Are they going to give teachers training in identifying gender dysphoria in their students once a year, in addition to the mountain of trainings they already have?
Besides, if everyone at school knows Johnny wants to be called Sally, don’t you think other kids will tell their parents and it isn’t a secret? Stuff like that isn’t a secret when the whole class hears the teacher call Johnny Sally. The only people who don’t know are irresponsible parents.
What happens, like in most cases, where the parent already knows because the parent is a good parent? The answer? It generates unnecessary animosity between the teacher and the family. I know that if a teacher called me about any of my kids, I would go berserk and do my due diligence to get that teacher fired. They should stay out of my family’s business. And I would follow up with lawsuits.
Teachers do not get involved in other psychological issues, so why this one? Does this mean we have to call when students exhibit cisgender tendencies? Where does this stop?
Many commenters are right that teachers need to get back to basics. But this ain’t basics.
Chris Bray 2 years ago2 years ago
If you accept the premise that schools should keep secrets from parents to protect LGBT students, you've accepted the premise that schools should keep secrets from parents. I think that's a much darker premise than you've considered, with much darker implications than you've allowed yourselves to see. The ludicrous LGBT framing about "targeting" children by allowing their parents to be involved in their lives is deeply unfortunate. It's not progressive for school officials to lie … Read More
If you accept the premise that schools should keep secrets from parents to protect LGBT students, you’ve accepted the premise that schools should keep secrets from parents. I think that’s a much darker premise than you’ve considered, with much darker implications than you’ve allowed yourselves to see.
The ludicrous LGBT framing about “targeting” children by allowing their parents to be involved in their lives is deeply unfortunate. It’s not progressive for school officials to lie and sneak. And the partisan split on this is not simply left and right. The majority of parents across the political spectrum expect to be involved in the lives of their children, and oppose a culture of official secrecy.
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John Leyba 2 years ago2 years ago
This is exactly the point, 100%. Thank you. If you accept that many, many children are in crisis, they need parents now more than ever as partners with teachers and administrators. That EdSource would publish an article with such a slanted headline is either a huge editorial oversight or a giant mistake, and a shameful one at that. Nobody is coming after kids. Parents are demanding a seat at the table before kids make unalterable life decisions. This … Read More
This is exactly the point, 100%. Thank you.
If you accept that many, many children are in crisis, they need parents now more than ever as partners with teachers and administrators.
That EdSource would publish an article with such a slanted headline is either a huge editorial oversight or a giant mistake, and a shameful one at that.
Nobody is coming after kids. Parents are demanding a seat at the table before kids make unalterable life decisions. This isn’t a matter of pronouns and nicknames but preserving reproductive freedom past the vicissitudes of teenage angst that so many experience. All parents need to protect children from those who would do them irreparable harm.
Sebastian Cognetta 2 years ago2 years ago
Spot on.
Maril Adrian 2 years ago2 years ago
Biased headline. This is an organized, highly-funded campaign that will harm children. The government wants our kids and is fomenting this rebellion against parents. No child is born in the wrong body and there is absolutely no scientific basis for this travesty. Parents will suffer and worse, the children will suffer.
Rebecca Sue Smith 2 years ago2 years ago
"The right of transgender students to keep their transgender status private.." You mean private from their parents but not every single other person at their school. There are already safety nets in place for children who feel unsafe at home – for example, Child Protective Services. It is so blatantly clear that the entire goal is to program children into a liberal ideology that is free from parental influences. I fight … Read More
“The right of transgender students to keep their transgender status private..” You mean private from their parents but not every single other person at their school. There are already safety nets in place for children who feel unsafe at home – for example, Child Protective Services.
It is so blatantly clear that the entire goal is to program children into a liberal ideology that is free from parental influences. I fight every day against this movement to remove parental rights and I won’t stop! AB 957 was vetoed because as deranged as Newsom is, he knows that proposed bill is beyond ridiculous and a complete overreach. Sane parent’s are not going to give up their children to the government no matter what. Far too many are privy to the plan now. The Marxist plan to destroy the family unit will fail.
el 2 years ago2 years ago
Such a caustic, toxic movement. Decades ago we thought gender was important in deciding what classes you'd take and what education you received. It took a long time but we've moved passed the era where girls had to take typing and home ec and boys took wood shop and math. I mean, we don't generally require a 72 hour parental notification of a failed exam. This one thing is such an odd place to land when you … Read More
Such a caustic, toxic movement.
Decades ago we thought gender was important in deciding what classes you’d take and what education you received. It took a long time but we’ve moved passed the era where girls had to take typing and home ec and boys took wood shop and math.
I mean, we don’t generally require a 72 hour parental notification of a failed exam. This one thing is such an odd place to land when you look at the continuum of possible situations in school. We wouldn’t ask teachers to inform parents that their student has made friends or gone out on a date with someone of a different religion (I hope anyway).
If a student wants to choose a different name at school, how is this a problem? If the parent doesn’t know, or they didn’t tell their parent, that’s a choice of the student. We’ve never fretted about Richard wanting to be called Rich or Dick instead of Richard or what mom calls them, “Little Richie.” If Quentin wants to be called Q – or if he wants other students to stop using “Q” – that’s their right. It’s just a matter of personal respect and autonomy to let people choose how they will be addressed.
Teachers are looking out for their students. If they are concerned about a student’s mental health, safety, or well-being, they already have tools and avenues to pursue. Leave the flexibility to them.
Children are not the property of their parents. They have autonomy. Some seek it and express it at different times, but autonomy is not a bad thing nor should parents find it threatening. Adding the force of law into the particulars of the relationship between yourself and your child rarely makes it better.
Eric Welker 2 years ago2 years ago
Oh boy! I know this article is well-intended but the bias embedded within is pretty obvious (just look at the title). Imagine how different this article might read if the title were "Conservative parents/students in the crosshairs of those in support of LGBTQ+ students." To be clear, parents wanting to be informed about their children's gender expression and behaviors at school does not trample on anyone's rights. It simply means that as parents, we want to … Read More
Oh boy! I know this article is well-intended but the bias embedded within is pretty obvious (just look at the title). Imagine how different this article might read if the title were “Conservative parents/students in the crosshairs of those in support of LGBTQ+ students.”
To be clear, parents wanting to be informed about their children’s gender expression and behaviors at school does not trample on anyone’s rights. It simply means that as parents, we want to be informed by the very institutions that expect/demand that we trust them with our children. Schools/districts are unworthy of the parental trust and support they depend on if they pass policies that remove a parent’s say from the conversation simply because it doesn’t align with popular views on gender and other current points of disagreement in the public psyche.
What if parents in certain communities don’t agree with current views on gender, or other issues like providing medical treatments to children without parental consent? Are they then supposed to just be ignored or omitted from such conversations? If conservative views are not valued like others then no quality school leader can honestly formulate a logically-based, rather than an emotionally-based, decision on any matter.
As a conservative parent I simply want my own values to be respected, and I also wish the same respect for parents whose views I disagree with. But this mutual respect is not possible when both sides of this issue are not objectively considered before passing policies/laws. We all want students to be successful, safe, valued, and nurtured (not coddled!) through their educational journey. Unfortunately this is impossible when there are blatant attempts to shut parents out over politics and policies.
Reader Who Would Like Unbiased Reporting 2 years ago2 years ago
The opening sentence of this article is so tremendously biased - it's the liberal version of what Fox News does and negatively affects the article's credibility. Kids and teachers certainly have a legitimate interest in keeping some information private, in particular when there is a concern about kids not being safe at home. Simultaneously, parents have a legitimate interest in being informed about their kids. Parenting is, after all, a fundamental … Read More
The opening sentence of this article is so tremendously biased – it’s the liberal version of what Fox News does and negatively affects the article’s credibility. Kids and teachers certainly have a legitimate interest in keeping some information private, in particular when there is a concern about kids not being safe at home. Simultaneously, parents have a legitimate interest in being informed about their kids. Parenting is, after all, a fundamental right – just like free speech, freedom of religion, freedom from unlawful imprisonment, etc.
A democratic society can and should balance conflicting legitimate interests with well-considered laws that look to the totality of the circumstances. Please drop the language about one-side “targeting” and “campaigning” against the other. It is inflammatory and unnecessary. An article that focused on the facts and compassionately described the multiple, complicated facets of this debate would have been so much more informative, useful, and interesting to read.
tomm 2 years ago2 years ago
There has been so much confusion about State law would like to ask you, Diana, since you have been looking into it. The 5th paragraph in this article suggests AB 1314 would allow districts to not tell parents about kids who ask to use a different pronoun or name, but then later in the piece says AG Bonta has sued Chino Valley USD for breaking the law by voting to require parental notification. Can … Read More
There has been so much confusion about State law would like to ask you, Diana, since you have been looking into it. The 5th paragraph in this article suggests AB 1314 would allow districts to not tell parents about kids who ask to use a different pronoun or name, but then later in the piece says AG Bonta has sued Chino Valley USD for breaking the law by voting to require parental notification. Can you confirm the status of the State law? Thanks
Mike Miller 2 years ago2 years ago
I will stand with all of my students, teaching that difference is to be celebrated, not crushed as these narrow-minded people want. The only thing I see being protected is a celebration of maintaining their ignorance and hiding behind policy to justify their own personal bias.
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Tom Morrison 2 years ago2 years ago
@Mike Miller if that is "all you see" who has a narrow mind? Whose vision is limited? Could it possibly be that parents want to be involved in their child's life and, you know, parent them with love and understanding? Maybe? And as a result, maybe come closer together and help avoid the mental health issues that everyone is worried about? Maybe a tighter family bond is formed, maybe the child realizes what a loving, … Read More
@Mike Miller if that is “all you see” who has a narrow mind? Whose vision is limited?
Could it possibly be that parents want to be involved in their child’s life and, you know, parent them with love and understanding? Maybe? And as a result, maybe come closer together and help avoid the mental health issues that everyone is worried about? Maybe a tighter family bond is formed, maybe the child realizes what a loving, caring family they have. Maybe teachers learn that conservatives have a wide view of thoughts and beliefs, and those should be respected just as much as a liberal’s thoughts and beliefs.
Moana Lupe 2 years ago2 years ago
@Tom Morrison, yes, thank you! Much respect.
Greg L 2 years ago2 years ago
Wow. Another shameful example of advocacy "journalism" where a thoughtful reader stops after the first sentence because it is an absolute indefensible lie. No students are in anyone's "crosshairs " Informing parents of any development with any child is the obvious responsibility of a caretaker. To say that a policy of involving parents in any conversation about their child is "targeting" a child is propagandistic sophistry of the worst kind. Read More
Wow. Another shameful example of advocacy “journalism” where a thoughtful reader stops after the first sentence because it is an absolute indefensible lie. No students are in anyone’s “crosshairs ”
Informing parents of any development with any child is the obvious responsibility of a caretaker. To say that a policy of involving parents in any conversation about their child is “targeting” a child is propagandistic sophistry of the worst kind.
Moana Lupe 2 years ago2 years ago
I'm glad there are more parents out there standing up for their rights as parents. We love our children! It's one thing when parents can't and are not allowed information for and about their own child's wellbeing and still need to deal with the outcome of the system indoctrinating and freely doing whatever with our children without the parent's consent and knowledge. And another thing for the government to overstep their boundaries into a family … Read More
I’m glad there are more parents out there standing up for their rights as parents. We love our children! It’s one thing when parents can’t and are not allowed information for and about their own child’s wellbeing and still need to deal with the outcome of the system indoctrinating and freely doing whatever with our children without the parent’s consent and knowledge. And another thing for the government to overstep their boundaries into a family unit to take away the right to know. I stand with the parents in saying “leave our children alone!”
Why not hire more counselors/mental health specialists to help navigate these talking topics with families? We as parents shouldn’t be left out of the conversations about our own children! We send them to school for education! We can do better together! Don’t leave the parents out of it!
Millie O'Donnell 2 years ago2 years ago
Of course parents should be notified if their child seeks to use different pronouns and 'socially transition.' That is a mental health care issue and also could lead to medical care implications down the road. The district and its staff and teachers have no right to hide important psychological/mental health care and medical care issues from the parents, the child's guardians. There is no evidence that a school district staff member's political … Read More
Of course parents should be notified if their child seeks to use different pronouns and ‘socially transition.’ That is a mental health care issue and also could lead to medical care implications down the road.
The district and its staff and teachers have no right to hide important psychological/mental health care and medical care issues from the parents, the child’s guardians. There is no evidence that a school district staff member’s political viewpoint and belief about a controversial and potentially dangerous to the child issue is better positioned to benefit the child than the parent’s care and guidance for their child. They are minors. Parents are in charge of their children. Keep away from our kids.
Todd Maddison 2 years ago2 years ago
Hmmm…. So what is there about notifying parents if their children are struggling with a mental health issue that is “targeting LGBTQ+ students”? That notification has been “the way it works” for a long time. Schools have always had an obligation to notify parents if a child is struggling. If a child came to a teacher and – in all seriousness – told them to call them Abraham Lincoln and address them … Read More
Hmmm…. So what is there about notifying parents if their children are struggling with a mental health issue that is “targeting LGBTQ+ students”?
That notification has been “the way it works” for a long time. Schools have always had an obligation to notify parents if a child is struggling. If a child came to a teacher and – in all seriousness – told them to call them Abraham Lincoln and address them as “Mr. President”, would that not be something parents should know about?
The fact that this moment this debate is focused on LGBTQ+ students is because the people who want to change that default rule are “targeting” LGBTQ+ kids in their effort to justify the secrecy. If schools decided they weren’t going to notify parents if the child expressed suicidal thoughts you would see the same opposition from parents – would you term that “Suicidal kids are the latest target of conservatives….”
Whether you feel “being transgender” is a normal, mentally healthy thing or not, the process of reaching the point where you conclude you are is most certainly a mental health concern. “Gender dysphoria” is a diagnosable mental condition. And as we’ve seen reported at length, LGBTQ+ kids have a much higher incidence of suicide. Isn’t that something parents should know is happening?
I’ve been to a lot of board meetings and heard this argument at the podium many times, but not once have I heard anyone on the “parent notification” side say anything negative about simply the fact that the child (or anyone) is identifying as LGBTQ+. The entire argument, which I’ve now heard 100 times or more, is about whether parents should be notified, not about the actual LGBTQ status.
“Look at the division in this room and outside this building tonight” says the teacher’s union president. Maybe there would not be such division if the unions were not on the side of changing well established practice and starting to keep secrets from parents. Unfortunately articles like this implying that conservative parents are “anti-LGBTQ” are some part of that division as well.
“Teachers widely disapprove of notification policies” Where is the data supporting this? The article quotes “some teachers” but gives no stats collected anywhere that proves this is a widely held belief.
Keep in mind the policies that I’ve seen don’t obligate the teacher to do the notification, that flows through the office or perhaps counseling staff. As it should. So if someone ever creates a survey, let’s be sure it asks if the teacher opposes having district staff notify the parents, not “the teacher” doing it …
If Zachreson’s effort to get the three initiatives on the ballot is successful, we’ll see what voters think about it and get a true gauge of public sentiment. Once we escape the education bubble, I think we’ll find most people are in agreement.
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el 2 years ago2 years ago
I have a question: Do you think it would be healthy to have a policy requiring teachers to call parents to inform them about who their student is dating, if they become aware that the student is dating, within 72 hours? Blanket, across the board, ie, Johnny took Suzie out on a date, I heard it in class today and I thought you should know?
Rebecca Sue Smith 2 years ago2 years ago
@el I feel like you think this entire argument revolves around children 16 and older. Children do belong to and are the responsibility of their parents. It sounds as if you believe parents should only be involved in feeding and housing, and then refer to the liberal guidebook for the rest.
Todd Maddison 2 years ago2 years ago
Do you think many consider dating to be a mental health issue?
Rebecca Sue Smith 2 years ago2 years ago
Thank you!! Perfectly said!!
James Cahill 2 years ago2 years ago
As a special education teacher for over 28 years I saw many of my students bullied by students outside my classroom because they were "different." Now students who are different are being used by adults for political reasons. Adults who do this in public are no better than a bully on a playground. The solution is easy. Get these political people to come to my classroom to work with children who are different. That was … Read More
As a special education teacher for over 28 years I saw many of my students bullied by students outside my classroom because they were “different.” Now students who are different are being used by adults for political reasons.
Adults who do this in public are no better than a bully on a playground. The solution is easy. Get these political people to come to my classroom to work with children who are different. That was a strategy I used with high school students who bullied my students.
It was a teachable moment that solved the problem.