Crying after sex
Q. Is it normal to cry after losing your virginity, in a safe, consensual situation?
Yup, it’s normal. For many of us, having sex for the first time is a big deal, and losing your virginity is often an emotional experience. Excitement, nervousness, relief, intimacy, happiness, love, and regret are just some of the feelings that can accompany sex. Sex that is safe and consensual is a good place to start, but here are some other things to consider:
- your personal values and goals
- your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you’re willing to take
- whether this is something you really want to do or if it’s something your partner is pushing you into
- what sort of relationship you want to have with the person you have sex with
Whether it’s your first time or your 100th, sex can be a really powerful experience that enhances the connection between two people. Hopefully, any tears that come with losing your virginity are the good kind.
-Nathan at PPFA